Friday, January 1, 2010

How the Right Condom Size Can Make You Better in Bed

Friday, January 1, 2010

More people today are using condoms than ever before.  Some of them think "a condom is a condom" and leave it at that.  Unfortunately for them, their sex life suffers as a result.
What Women Want
What many men do not stop to think about is how the condom feels to their partner.  Their loss can be your gain.  Magazines like Cosmo and Women's Health do surveys of their readers to find out which condoms feel the best.
It's not the "gimmicky" condoms that win out.  Most women do not like the "ribbed for her pleasure" or studded condoms that are meant to make up for something that presumably their man is missing.  What most women like requires a journey into the mind of a woman.
Every respected sex guide and therapist on the planet has one common message on how to pleasure a woman.  They may differ on technique and position, but there is one consistent theme with all of them.  Sexual pleasure for a woman is as much mental as it is physical.
For a woman to have an orgasm, and consequently, think her man is a great lover, she has to feel close and intimate with him.  Without that, nothing else matters.
You can take any sex position or technique and it will be worthless if you cannot create closeness and intimacy with your partner.  When you are using a condom, that piece of latex you are putting on creates a barrier to intimacy.  It puts something between you and your partner.  When you choose the wrong one, that barrier is thick and pleasure-less
You may have great technique, but she may secretly think of you as a bad lover because the wrong condom creates this lack of intimacy.
How Can Condoms Help?
The condoms that women consistently rank the highest are those that are the thinnest, form-fitted and allow for the most pleasure, sensation, and body heat to pass through.  Unfortunately, your local drug store box of condoms isn't going to do this for you.
The average condom makes you feel "plasticky" and plain to her.  She wants to feel your ridges and curves and heat.  That's closeness.  That's intimacy.  That's what gets her hot.
Which Condoms Are Rated Highest By Women For Pleasure And Intimacy?
Without a guide, you might be lost in the sea of condom varieties, marketing gimmicks and scientific jargon.
Check out these reviews of the best condoms to see which one is rated the best by women.
Choosing the right condom will create more closeness and intimacy. With just this one simple step of choosing the right condom, you can instantly become a better lover.

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Monday, December 28, 2009

A Condom Size Chart Will Help You Get The Most in Pleasure And Protection

Monday, December 28, 2009

Condom Size Chart

Choosing a condom that is the right size for your penis is the best way to get maximum pleasure and protection during sex. There are a variety of condom sizes. The average condom is 7.5 inches long, 2 inches wide at the shaft and a little more than 2 inches wide at the head.
There are 3 reasons to buy a condom other than an average sized condom.
1. Average sized condoms have a tendency to slip off during intercourse. In this case, buy narrower condoms.
2. Average sized condoms are too tight in the shaft. For this problem, buy wider condoms that are less constrictive and will have less tendency to break.
3. Average sized condoms are too tight in the head. To address this, buy condoms with more headroom.
Condom length is not much of an issue as condoms generally stretch very well along the length without risk of breaking.. You can find condoms over 8 inches long if you are exceptionally large. If you are smaller than the 7.5 inch average length, do not worry as most men are. In fact, studies show the average penis size is between 5 and 6 inches long as measured along the top from the base to the head.
If the condom is too long, you just do not unroll the condom all the way. Condoms that are too long should not slip off. Condoms that are too wide do tend to slip off, and that is why it is more important to get the width correct.
Use the condom size chart below to determine which of the variety of condom sizes you need.
Narrow condoms: 1.75 inches wide.
Average condoms: 2 inches wide.
Large condoms: More than 2 inches wide.
Extra large condoms: More than 2.5 inches wide at the head and more than 2 inches wide at the shaft.
Want to know which condom brands are in each size category? Check out this condom size chart that shows where specific condom brands fit and which ones may be right for you.

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